10 years ago today Allan's sister Hazel died after a brutally short illness and only in her 30's.
It sent a shockwave through our family.
As it would.
Hearts broke. Even from far away.
And so a journey of grief began for a son, a sister, a brother, parents, sister-in-law, nieces and nephews, cousins, aunts and uncles...friends
One life gone like a pebble thrown into a pond - ripples and ripples and ripples of sadness and pain.
And each year, that ripple bumps up against my heart again.
But I can brace for it now. I stand my ground and it no longer overwhelms me.
I let it wash over me and I feel the sadness but I can remember the joy too and the frustrations and we can speak the stories to one another now without our throats closing and eyes stinging.
We can remember her satisfied smile, the twinkle in her eye and the stubbornness of her stance and so she lives on in our memories and hearts.
Grief is a strange thing/process... a decade does make a difference in some ways and in other ways we can never recover.
We carry on as family less an important person. We are poorer for her missed presence.
Never quite who we once were.
Hazy - we love and miss you - shine bright sister.
Attempting wholehearted living in a busy but beautiful life, facing 50 with grace and trying to make sense of what the days throw my way. Documenting my life as I see it.
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